I finished college, taught 3 years, got married, decorated cakes in a bakery, and became pregnant with my first child, and then yearned for more words.
I took a Continuing Ed class at IU-PU Fort Wayne called Creative Writing. Now I was able to write for myself, not as a set assignment. I wrote about my childhood backyard, Mrs. Dremley (a friend of the family), roses, and just my stories. I loved the class. I remember I attended the class the first part of my pregnancy, but I became so sick, I didn't feel I could go on with the class. My instructor sent my stories back to me with much encouragement. I still have those stories.
After leaving teaching to raise 3 sons who were in school by now, I ventured once again into writing. I had the desire to see my name in print!! By-lines were my goal. The Ft. Wayne Journal Gazette published a Neighbors section for the 4 quadrants of the city. I became a reporter for the northeast side where I lived. I loved interviewing people and listening to their real stories. I covered things like a family opening a new business to families who had experienced home fires. I was required to bring my copy in and type it on the newspaper computers. At this time, computers weren't found anywhere I knew except for games of Pac-Man at home. I did this for a season, then decided to take on a real job. Teaching was out of the question for me right now.
I ended up getting a great job at Lincoln National Life as a secretary which lead to a position in the training department. I loved this job. I worked with sales people, taught a class in business etiquette (Believe it or not!), and helped write manuals for the insurance field offices. I wrote but did not understand anything I really wrote!! I don't know how I did that to this day.
We moved, and I finally returned to teaching 7th graders for the next 19 years. The last 10 years before I retired were the best. I started to attend AllWrite meetings with Ruth at another school. We left that first meeting not really knowing what we had just experienced, but we were hooked.
I enjoyed teaching more than I ever had when I incorporated Writing Workshop into my classroom. I stumbled a lot those first couple of years but couldn't let the concept go. I felt I was really teaching, connecting with kids, and writing for the first time with a community of young writers. I learned along with my students and am still learning today.
Why do I still write?
It's like reading a good book. I write:
- to be comforted
- to be grounded
- to escape
- to enjoy
- to sort things out
- to be part of a writing community
- to tell my story
Wonderful thoughts on writing! Writer's Workshop is my favorite part of my teaching day too!
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed hearing your story of your writing life. I especially enjoyed when your writing journey and teaching journey seemed to be running side by side. What a perfect list of the reasons we write. Isn't it funny there are so many reasons beyond just to share information. I think I'd add one, I write to remember. Sometimes I have just a hint of a memory and when I start to really try to put it on paper I tease out little details I thought I had forgotten.
ReplyDeleteHappy writing,
Cathy
I also enjoyed reading your history. I found out so many new things about you! Didn't know about decorating cakes. I want to talk about that! so many interesting tidbits I want to ask you about!
ReplyDeleteI went back to read Part I also, Tam, & loved the circuitous path you took to teaching, so many interesting jobs that probably made the teaching all the better. I'm glad you shared so many things!
ReplyDeleteI can honestly say I never get tired of hearing your stories. I was so glad to see that you added part 2 of this piece.
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